Dads In Distress

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Keeping dads alive and in their kids lives

What is Dads in Distress?

DIDs (or 'Dads in Distress') is a free national support for separated dads in Australia. Through partnership, we also provide support in New Zealand.

Everything we do is free, confidential, male friendly and non judgemental. 

Our team are all dads who've been through it themselves; so, you're connecting to a peer who gets it. 

Common things dads speak to us about include: separation and divorce, custody and contact issues, parental alienation, financial issues and child support, family and criminal law proceedings, domestic violence, depression and anxiety. 

How support works

All support we provide is free and near instant - there's no need to book, pay or prepare. Key options:

All services are listed below. 

Feeling a little hesitant?

You won't be the first! Maybe the following helps:

Frequently asked questions

Q: Is there a cost involved?

No. Everything we do is 100% free. 

Q: I'm worried about confidentiality

Our support is 100% confidential. We don't report you.

Q: Is DIDs judgemental / anti-male?

We're 100% male / dad friendly. We're all separated dads. You're safe ehere.

Q: I need legal advice?

We're not lawyers but we do have friendly lawyers who regularly offer our dads free (pro-bono) legal support. 

Q: I've got another question

Call 1300 853 437 or email enquiries@ parentsbeyondbreakup.com.

The above is a comment by one of the attending dads at a DIDs support group. Sharing more clearly than could we, how he feels and what he needs. Men want to sit with, be listened to and shown how to navigate these challenges by other men; men who've been through it themselves. When you've lost all trust in the system, this is the only place you know 100% you will not be judged and that the help comes without conditions. This, is DIDs. Men, looking after men. No judgement, confidential, free, male friendly.

👇 Support by region & timezone👇

DiDs, please note that there may be changes to some of the scheduled meetings over the holiday period.
Please CHECK the meeting calendar for your region below to see which meetings are running.
The calendars will be updated if any changes or cancellations are made. If its listed, its running. :)

ACT Support

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NSW Support

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NT Support

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QLD Support

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SA Support

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TAS Support

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VIC

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WA

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NZ

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☎️ Calls to our helpline from NZ should be via +61 2 6652 8113

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What happens at DIDs?

One of our dads explains

Other Support Services

General health and wellbeing

Mental Health

Legal

Child Support Agency

Financial

Accomodation

Abuse & Domestic Violence

Parental Alienation

Helping you to help your kids

Other support


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