Keeping dads alive and in their kids lives
What is Dads in Distress?
DIDs (or 'Dads in Distress') is a free national support for separated dads in Australia. Through partnership, we also provide support in New Zealand.
Everything we do is free, confidential, male friendly and non judgemental.
Our team are all dads who've been through it themselves; so, you're connecting to a peer who gets it.
Common things dads speak to us about include: separation and divorce, custody and contact issues, parental alienation, financial issues and child support, family and criminal law proceedings, domestic violence, depression and anxiety.
How support works
All support we provide is free and near instant - there's no need to book, pay or prepare. Key options:
Telephone helpline, available 7 days on 1300 853 437 (or +61 2 6652 8113 from outside AU)
Online ZOOM meetings through the week
In-person meetings in towns across Australia
24/7 online peer dad chat group
All services are listed below.
Feeling a little hesitant?
You won't be the first! Maybe the following helps:
Trust is everything so ALL of our DIDs team are dads who've been through it themselves. They will listen and get it immediately.
We're one of the only places that won't judge you, so its a safe place to talk through the issues.
98% of those that try us say it was the best support they found. That's about as good as it gets!
Often, dads think about coming many times before they actually try. We often hear they wished they'd done so earlier. Don't leave it too late.
Frequently asked questions
Q: Is there a cost involved?
No. Everything we do is 100% free.
Q: I'm worried about confidentiality
Our support is 100% confidential. We don't report you.
Q: Is DIDs judgemental / anti-male?
We're 100% male / dad friendly. We're all separated dads. You're safe ehere.
Q: I need legal advice?
We're not lawyers but we do have friendly lawyers who regularly offer our dads free (pro-bono) legal support.
Q: I've got another question
Call 1300 853 437 or email enquiries@ parentsbeyondbreakup.com.
The above is a comment by one of the attending dads at a DIDs support group. Sharing more clearly than could we, how he feels and what he needs. Men want to sit with, be listened to and shown how to navigate these challenges by other men; men who've been through it themselves. When you've lost all trust in the system, this is the only place you know 100% you will not be judged and that the help comes without conditions. This, is DIDs. Men, looking after men. No judgement, confidential, free, male friendly.
👇 Support by region & timezone👇
DiDs, please note that there may be changes to some of the scheduled meetings over the holiday period.
Please CHECK the meeting calendar for your region below to see which meetings are running.
The calendars will be updated if any changes or cancellations are made. If its listed, its running. :)
ACT Support
🕜 Times displayed are ACT timezone
👇 Click on event to view details
🏠 In-person DIDs Groups @
Canberra
NSW Support
🕜 Times displayed are NSW timezone
💡 Click on event to view details
🏠 In-person DIDs Groups @
Bathurst
Gosford
Maitland
Newcastle
Northern Beaches - NEW Venue
Singleton
Sydney CBD
Tamworth
NT Support
🕜 Times displayed are NT timezone
👇 Click on event to view details
🏠 In-person support @
Darwin 1-2-1 Mentor (Call 1300 853437 to arrange)
Alice Springs 1-2-1 Mentor (coming soon)
QLD Support
🕜 Times displayed are QLD timezone
👇 Click on event to view details
🏠 In-person DIDs Groups @
Brisbane
Cairns
Gold Coast
SA Support
🕜 Times displayed are SA timezone
👇 Click on event to view details
🏠 In-person DIDs Groups @
Adelaide
Whyalla coming soon (Dedicated online group Sat's @ 10am)
TAS Support
🕜 Times displayed are TAS timezone
👇 Click on event to view details
🏠 In-person DIDs Groups @
Hobart
VIC
🕜 Times displayed are VIC timezone
👇 Click on event to view details
🏠 In-person DIDs Groups @
Bayswater
Frankston
Geelong
North Melbourne
WA
🕜 Times displayed are WA timezone
👇 Click on event to view details
🏠 In-person support @
Perth (Scarborough)
Busselton opening soon
NZ
🕜 Times displayed are NZ timezone
☎️ Calls to our helpline from NZ should be via +61 2 6652 8113
👇 Click on event to view details
🏠 In-person DIDs Groups @
Delivered locally in NZ via Kidz Need Dadz
What happens at DIDs?
One of our dads explains
Other Support Services
General health and wellbeing
Mental Health
Legal
DIDs Monday Expert Q&A with free lawyers (refer above for times)
Child Support Agency
DIDs Monday Expert Q&A with free CSA experts (see above for times)
Financial
National Debt Helpline (includes rent and child support help)
Accomodation
Abuse & Domestic Violence
Parental Alienation
Helping you to help your kids
Other support
Volunteer & Change Your Life
When it's all too much, sometimes giving back is the only way to get back your sense of purpose. Help a fellow traveller not make the same mistakes; who's bets qualified to do that? Volunteer and find new purpose. It saves lives. Theirs. Yours.